The forming of you
We all experience different situations in life, which lead us to actions.
Actions we are proud of. Actions we dearly regret.
But both type of actions make the experience.
I think life is about the experience and the actions we take.
I think all of them shape us to become who we are today and how we will act in the future.
Others can give you advices but at the end it is you who has to act and make the actions to get the experience.